Lastly, turn off all devices in order to avoid the temptation. When planning to take some out a date, schedule the date for a time when you are in a work lull.
For example if you are an accountant do not schedule a date at year end.
362) It is important to acknowledge that as the “feeling-being” authentic Self of workaholics is gradually sacrificed to the values and priorities of their “doing-and-performing” public persona, the threat of giving up control and risking self-annihilation is just too threatening to contemplate.
Intimacy requires good communication and a sharing of power and responsibility for the health of the relationship, and for each partner’s emotional, intellectual and physical well-being.
You will be busy and most likely expected to take phone calls around the clock.
Plus your head will probably be in work mode and it may be hard to shut that off and provide your date with your full attention.
This technology has also allowed people to be able to work all the time, whether they are in the office or not.Remember people are attracted to hard work and dedication.Give specifics about what you are working on and why you are so busy, this allows the person to feel in the know and included in your life.Much like your job dating goes much smoother when you are prepared.If you are getting ready to go on a date make sure you have all your emails for the day wrapped up.Such a commitment requires an easy give and take, to be receptive but not controlling, to give without expectations or strings attached.There is no unconditional generosity when one member of the couple decides to “give in” and the spouse have his or her own way, unless the other’s happiness is foremost in one’s thoughts.Or maybe you are an account manager and looking to close a big deal; this is a horrible time to schedule a first date as you will be anticipating a call and trying to refrain from looking at your phone will feel like torture. You want to give your full attention to your new romantic partner and distraction can be considered rude and potentially ruin the chance of future dates.Most business relationship work best when both partners are honest and upfront about their situations. Being honest to your partner or potential partner and explaining that you are too busy with work can actually be seen as a positive if you work it right.If you take on dating like you would do with a work assignment there is no doubt you will be successful.and be able to express not only genuine emotional support, but also grateful appreciation.