When you find yourself in this situation, don’t panic or let your anxiety overwhelm you.
The main way to avoid panic and anxiety is to keep things in perspective. To help keep things in perspective, I want you to conduct an exercise that isn’t very different from what psychotherapists do with their clients.
In fact, you might find yourself spending a good chunk of time daydreaming about him or imagining future things the two of you could do together.
For these reasons, it can really sting when he doesn’t call.
Instead of focusing on the negative (he didn’t call), redirect your attention to something positive.
Distraction is an extremely effective coping mechanism, and you can employ it in countless ways. If it’s been a couple days and he hasn’t called, give him a week or so until you decide to move on.
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Seth Meyers addresses one of the biggest issues women deal with (and struggle with) when it comes to men.
Read on for the relationship expert’s advice about how to handle the guy who says he’ll call, but doesn’t. If you’ve met someone you like, it’s a no-brainer that you’re going to want to see that person again.
Go for a run, call a friend, or start working on a project that will give you a sense of satisfaction once you’ve finished. But once it’s apparent that he’s not going to call (usually around the one week marker), set a new goal of finding someone else.
This is the perfect time to respond to a few guys’ online profiles or go for a night out with your girlfriends to a place where you might meet someone new.