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You may be a submissive or slave, or at least think you want to be, but that doesn't make you just anyone's submissive or slave.
There is no thought or consideration given to the feelings and emotions of the one(s) that happened to venture there with very valid and legitimate needs, seeking to learn, seeking acceptance, hoping to find the path to that one special power exchange relationship.
There is no one way of guaranteeing that a legitimate submissive or slave won't mistakenly end up in an environment that just isn't what she thought it was, but there are some steps a submissive or slave should take, or at least consider before she sets out in search of a submissive or slave chat room or forum.
Honest, straightforward, patient, well-mannered, versatile, and knowledgeable (not only about sex, kinks, and fetishes).
He must understand the D/s dynamic/psychology foremost and is willing to give of himself as much as he is willing to receive what he looks for. Knows his limits, knows himself, has discipline, self control, and can deliver what is expected from him.